tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6352779018210032802.post5865434393476174387..comments2023-03-30T07:47:55.123-07:00Comments on The Valley's Other Fruit | an insider's guide to Gay and LGBT Napa Valley: Napa Valley Pride: Help pick our theme, vote in our pollValley's Other Fruithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10678486362518374058noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6352779018210032802.post-39628342781893387332009-04-15T17:17:00.000-07:002009-04-15T17:17:00.000-07:00anonymous. In addition to the HRC website, I also ...anonymous. In addition to the HRC website, I also like the American Psychological Association site and the Soulforce site. You may already be more web savvy than I am, but I wanted to point those out in case you weren't aware of them. Lots of good information. <br /><br />Our teens can be very difficult years, and the information available can help you to arm yourself against those who want to punish you for being who you are. Study hard so you can support yourself when the time comes, and so you can have the inner strength to not be harmed by the forces that want to put you down.<br /><br />Another source of comfort I have found helpful is the Desiderata. One part says: "Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here." <br />Take good care of yourself.equalnotspecialnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6352779018210032802.post-77359787686557407012009-04-14T22:45:00.000-07:002009-04-14T22:45:00.000-07:00@rxforme7, thanks for sharing the love and support...@rxforme7, thanks for sharing the love and support...and words of encouragement.<br /><br />@anonymous (16 y.o.), I'm not sure if you've read any of my posts about my own personal experiences, but I come from a very religious, very conservative family and didn't come out--even to myself--until I was 27. We can only come out when the time is right. You'll know when it's right, or you'll start feeling it. Sometimes it's good to push yourself sooner, sometimes it's better to wait til you're absolutely ready, most of the time it's somewhere in between. I'd be glad to share more about me if you'd like to know...just email me.<br /><br />Not sure if these will be helpful, but here's some worthwhile (i hope) reading:<br />http://www.hrc.org/issues/coming_out.aspValley's Other Fruithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10678486362518374058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6352779018210032802.post-29807536691754221122009-04-14T22:15:00.000-07:002009-04-14T22:15:00.000-07:00I am a straight ally and totally support you all. ...I am a straight ally and totally support you all. I do have a Gay son and I am very sad about the comments made by anonymous. Unless you plan to never come out, your family will find out eventually. I have always supported my son. There is really nothing he could do to not have my love. Stay strong and be true to yourself and know that GOD does not make mistakes.. so, you are perfect just as you are. And realize that it is their problem not yours...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6352779018210032802.post-27403301545506322952009-04-11T16:46:00.000-07:002009-04-11T16:46:00.000-07:00What about...Napa Valley Pride 2009:Come out and c...What about...<BR/><BR/>Napa Valley Pride 2009:<BR/>Come out and celebrate!Valley's Other Fruithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10678486362518374058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6352779018210032802.post-9658357198843437542009-04-09T23:14:00.000-07:002009-04-09T23:14:00.000-07:00I'm only 16, and I wish I could help more, but I h...I'm only 16, and I wish I could help more, but I have the obvious limitations of being a just a teen. Not to mention that I haven't come out to my parents, so I can't really go to any of these things without them wondering if I'm Gay =/ Sorry guys (and girls) but my parents can't find out, they're very, very bigoted. <BR/><BR/>BTW-- totally agree with the equal rights guy, just maybe find a prettier slogan. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6352779018210032802.post-8948760978094526352009-04-09T21:49:00.000-07:002009-04-09T21:49:00.000-07:00Or_We are all out here together(?)!Just another th...Or_<BR/><BR/>We are all out here together(?)!<BR/><BR/><BR/>Just another thought.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6352779018210032802.post-33257426396802158692009-04-09T20:52:00.000-07:002009-04-09T20:52:00.000-07:00I like "Out in the Valley." Very fitting...I like "Out in the Valley." Very fitting...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6352779018210032802.post-47465941781306258052009-04-09T18:53:00.000-07:002009-04-09T18:53:00.000-07:00love the Napa Real Napa Proud :) it's not too an...love the Napa Real Napa Proud :) it's not too anything..... if you know what I mean. :) KimAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6352779018210032802.post-53787460809791220412009-04-09T10:54:00.000-07:002009-04-09T10:54:00.000-07:00"Equal rights" is pretty simple, but that's what w..."Equal rights" is pretty simple, but that's what we are after, and isn't as threatening as anything that singles us out. I have never liked the term "gay rights" as it sounds like someting straight people don't have. To add "now" is a bit demanding. I think "equal rights" says it all without being offensive to anyone.equalnotspecialnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6352779018210032802.post-46491938830819513012009-04-09T09:20:00.000-07:002009-04-09T09:20:00.000-07:00For me, I'd like something along the lines of "Fre...For me, I'd like something along the lines of "Free To Be . . . You and Me" (apologies to Marlo Thomas - although I'm sure many an older gay fell in love with That Girl and her hot boyfriend Donald Hollenger!)<BR/><BR/>Coming out, for me, was all about getting comfortable with who I was. It was accepting the fact, finally after decades, that I didn't make a "choice" earlier in life. I am the man that God created.<BR/><BR/>I hope we can create events where EVERYONE - gay or straight, male or female, black, white, yellow or brown (and every shade in between) feel welcomed, loved and accepted for exactly who they are.NapkinRicknoreply@blogger.com